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    School supplies

    Things we need in every school that are not guns:

     * Up to date books

    * Books

    * Classroom supplies that teachers don’t have to buy out-of-pocket
    * Involved parents
    * Decent, recent technology
    * Healthy lunches
    * Clean bathrooms that work

    * Places to run, jump, and move

    * Motivated teachers working for fair pay

    * School nurses
    * Band instruments
    * Band
    * Music class
    * Art supplies
    * Art teacher
    * Art class
    * Team uniforms
    * Sports teams

    Feel free to add your own. 

    NRA: Armed guards, volunteer security gangs needed in every school. [NPR]

    Meanwhile, in good guys with guns: 

    DA: 4 dead, 3 troopers hurt in shooting incident

     

    December 21, 2012 in Current Affairs, Domesticity, Kids | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    Autumn is gone, the jackals are on the scene

    "THIS IS NOT A SALES CALL!"

    The ink was hardly dry on Autumn Pasquale's alleged killers' fingerprints when the robocall interrupted my dinner.

    "THERE HAS BEEN AN INCREASE IN CRIME IN YOUR AREA!"

    My house is about 8 miles from the street in neighboring Clayton where Autumn lived, and where she died too young and too horribly. Out here on the rural edges of Gloucester County, that's practically around the block.

    The recorded message -- which came from (425) 658-8850, a Washington-based telemarketing outfit called Pacific Telecom --  then went on to encourage me to sign up for a home security plan, with a monitoring system. 

    Remember, it wasn't a sales call.

    I listened to their pitch, general enough to be used to play on the fears of any community facing the unaccustomed trauma of a violent crime. Then I pressed the number meant, I thought, to connect me to one of their operators, so I could tell them what a bunch of parasitic vermin they are, but the call disconnected.

    It's probably better that way. The psychic energy is surely better spent praying for the two families whose lives have been rent by unimaginable, unknowable evil.

    October 23, 2012 in Current Affairs, Jersey, Kids | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    Cassie and Kelsey: How two little girls tell the story of our sick healthcare system

    Cassidy
    Since the Affordable Care Act went into effect on Aug. 1, I've heard a lot about how it will affect my ladyparts, providing coverage for things like Pap tests, prenatal care and mammograms. And while all of my parts are appropriately grateful, I've been thinking about how Obamacare is really about these two little girls I know. 

    One is Cassidy Freeman, whose picture you may have seen on Facebook. The 8-year-old is one of three gorgeous daughters of a hardworking couple who, when I met them over a decade ago, were in ministry in the Church of Christ.

    Scott was a preacher, and Tracy had worked for Republican politicans before becoming a full-time mom. It would be fair to describe their politics then as socially conservative, though to me they were always more interested in following Jesus than any political party. 

    At age four, Cassie was diagnosed with juvenile arthritis, and since then she's been denied medical coverage four times due to her pre-existing condition. Obamacare can't fix her arthritis, but it's already cured some of the family's anxiety. 

    The other girl on my mind is Kelsey Fuller, whose family lives in my South Jersey town. Now 15, Kelsey was born with a rare condition called Juvenile Neuronal Ceroid Lipofuscinosis, or Batten Disease.

    Batten is a neurological disorder that results in worsening seizures, mental impairment, loss of speech and motor function. It is always fatal. The form of the disease Kelsey has usually results in death before age 30.  156156_3665921577435_782401337_n

    Her family, which includes two other children, cares for Kelsey the best they can and tries to make her life as fulfilling as possible. She goes to school each day, at the Archbishop Damiano School at St. John of God in Westville Grove. With both parents working full time, Kelsey's aging grandparents also help out when they can.

    But her condition is getting worse -- she's now legally blind, struggles to speak, struggles to walk and wakes several times a night. The family has tried to get in-home skilled nursing services to help with Kelsey's care. Their insurance company refused, Kelsey's mother said, because her condition isn't advanced enough yet -- Kelsey can still do some things, like feed herself, with assistance.

    That will change. 

    "This disease is absolutely horrible. The brain basically shuts down and the rest of the body deteriorates because of this, leaving them bedridden until death," her mother, Kim, told me. "These kids are dying a slow, painful death and there's not a damn thing we can do. Most of these kids are so heavily medicated, they become like zombies.  Research continues, but because this is a rare 'orphan' disease, funding is extremely hard to get."

    With repeated denials from their insurance company, the family's next step is applying for Medicaid, but first they'll have to burn through nearly all of their retirement savings to meet the asset threshhold -- sacrificing the rest of the family's future security to care for Kelsey in the present. 

    For me, Kelsey's case is an illustration of how Obamacare likely doesn't go far enough. It's an example of how medical insurance companies turn sick children into a series of little boxes to be clicked off, categories to be satisfied, benchmarks to be met. 

    But Kelsey's story will only end one way. Everything else, all that comes before, is what her family will have to hold on to at the end. Fighting with an insurance company for help shouldn't eat up another minute of that precious time.

     

    August 15, 2012 in Current Affairs, Domestic agenda, Jersey, Kids | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    Look, someone just tell me if it's OK to eat the waffle fries or not.

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    (image via @samplereality and @baznet  )

    Hmmmmm.

    Does "gay it up" mean go in and act dumb and reinforce a bunch of stereotypes? Or does "gay it up" mean non-ridiculous gay people going in with their kids and watching them climb all over the germ delivery apparatus, er, play equipment.


    Isn't withholding your business from Chick-Fil-A the best way to show disapproval of their anti-gay corporate worldview? I'm struggling with this one, because those nuggets are so very delicious.

    July 22, 2012 in Food and Drink, Kids, Other peoples' gayness | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    For the future that we wait

    Can we stop talking about what's going to happen to the Paterno shrine now?

    It hurt like hell to wake up Sunday to see the statue come down, and the look on Jack's face when I told him made me catch my breath. I said Joe hadn't shown leadership when he didn't call the police, that he didn't protect the kids when Jerry Sandusky was abusing them at Penn State. Factually correct, yet hardly enough words to contain all the heartbreak.

    A friend reminded me that this is what comes of erecting statues to the living. Hard to argue right now. I guess the next questions we'll all obsess on will be what happens to that space on Curtin Road, and -- once again -- what should happen to the JoePa statue?

     

    July 22, 2012 in Dear Old State, Kids, Sports, The Boy | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    Tough days, layoffs at Girard College

    While most of the city's attention has been focused on the situation inside the troubled Philadelphia School District, things inside Girard College seem to be in a state of rapid decline.

    There are a number of reasons I can't approach this story as a neutral reporter but I am happy to provide a place here for folks on campus to tell their stories in the hope that the city's reporters will take notice.

    Last semester, I heard disturbing reports about things like the kitchen running out of food and many students who hadn't eaten much at dinner the night before (apparently pork was served and many student don't dig on swine) receiving only fruit at breakfast -- hardly enough to fire up the brain for a day of learning. 

    I've heard repeated reports of former staffers and students being discouraged, or outright prohibited, from visiting the campus. It's not for me to blame any of this on Autumn Adkins, the thirtysomething who became Girard's president in 2009, but things do not seem to be moving in the right direction.

    Most recently, on April 14, my sources say, about 10 teachers and staff members were given official layoff notices. All of them showed up to work the next day, where students were understandably upset. That happens at any school where beloved teachers depart, but at Girard it's important to remember that the school itself is designed to be a -- and sometimes, the only -- stable and consistent thing in the child's life.

    Aside from the money story, there's a human story here. Regardless of the school's history or what anybody thinks about Stephen Girard, there are kids on campus hurting and they deserve better.

    Do you work at Girard College, or are you a student? Please feel free to leave your thoughts/tips/information here or email me at citizenmom@gmail.com . Hail Girard.

     

     

    April 17, 2011 in Current Affairs, Kids, Philly | Permalink | Comments (34) | TrackBack (0)

    See Jane. See Jane Tweet. Tweet, Jane, Tweet.

    Just read about a fascinating bit of parenting discussion at SXSW on raising digital natives, that is, kids who grow up online and using mobile technology. Now, I'm not sure my kid would be ready for a Twitter account at age 7, as mentioned in the piece. But one angle of the discussion, about how TV watching fits in, rang true in Citizen Mom's house: 

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    The main point of disagreement amongst the group arose over the issue of limiting TV time. Bracken, for instance, will not let his daughter watch TV, but has no problem showing her streaming Netflix shows on his iPad. Sinker agreed, noting the unlike regular TV, streaming media contains little or no commercials for unhealthy foods or products parents might find to be objectionable. Some in the audience did not agree with this explanation, however, and called Bracken's approach hypocritical. (InnovationNews Daily, via @NatashaChart)

    To me there's nothing hypocritical about this, in fact, controlling what visual media kids consume is as important as controlling how much is watched and on what device. This is why as a parent I've always loved On Demand kids programming so much -- it isn't just being able to cue up Phineas and Ferb whenever and wherever, it's being able to do so in a way that avoids the commercials for Totino's Pizza Rolls and Fuzzoodles. It's about monitoring quality, sometimes more than quantity.

    I'm convinced that we avoided turning Jack into one of those kids who demands a new toy every time he's in the store by keeping him away from TV commercials for as long as possible. Now, at age 9, he not only prefers watching TV programming online or on demand, but the very idea of having to show up in front of the TV at a certain time to watch a certain show is alien. It's just not the way his world works.

    March 17, 2011 in Kids, Television, Web/Tech | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

    CHOP gets a Sugar Daddy

    Sweet, sweet money: The Inquirer's Heard in the Hall blog reports this morning that a Big Beverage interest group is giving Children's Hospital of Philadelphia $10 million to fund (wait for it) "research into and prevention of childhood obesity."

    The three-year grant is funded by a new organization, the Foundation for a Healthy America , created by the American Beverage Association, the national trade group representing manufacturers and bottlers. The ABA was instrumental in lobbying Philadelphia City Council to reject Nutter's proposal to tax sugary drinks at 2-cents per ounce as a way to cut consumption and raise money for the general fund.

    In a press release Wednesday, CHOP insisted that it will "retain absolute clinical and research independence," as the source of its funding for the research is likely to come under attack from those wary of the beverage industry's influence.  That includes funding for clinical studiesto be submitted to peer-reviewed publications.

    Let's see now, research into and prevention of childhood obesity . . . OK, lemme take a crack at this one:

    My intensive field research over nine years of parenting is that many overweight children consume too much sugar. To prevent this, don't put Mountain Dew in your toddler's sippy cup. This message brought to you by Mountain Dew. WHERE'S MY TEN MILLION?

    March 16, 2011 in Domesticity, Food and Drink, Kids, Philly, Science, WTF, yo | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    FREE STUFF: 'Babies' movie passes, swag

    Poopies, you know Yr Mom has never lied to you in nearly six years (!!) of writing this blog, so I feel I should preface the following by noting that my kid was, in fact, the cutest baby in the history of infancy.

    Now, that being said, the wee ones who are the subjects of Focus Features' BABIES: The Movie are pretty flippin' smoochable. The documentary follows four babies from four very different parts of the globe (Mongolia, Namibia, San Francisco and Tokyo) through their first year.

    [A note to my menfolk: As this clearly-not-ready-for-fatherhood chap noted, the trailer alone is enough to induce ovulation, so probably not a good first date movie.]

    I have lots of free passes to a screening of BABIES: The Movie and a sweet prize pack including a BABIES onesie, a T-shirt, mini-posters and passes. The screening is at 7:30 p.m. on Thursday, May 6, at the AMC Loews in Cherry Hill.

    For passes or to enter the prize pack drawing, send an email to citizenmom@gmail.com with NO MY FIRST NAME AIN'T BABY in the subject line, or @citizenmom on Twitter. 

    BABOS-1-Sheet

    April 27, 2010 in Film, Kids | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

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