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    Cassie and Kelsey: How two little girls tell the story of our sick healthcare system

    Cassidy
    Since the Affordable Care Act went into effect on Aug. 1, I've heard a lot about how it will affect my ladyparts, providing coverage for things like Pap tests, prenatal care and mammograms. And while all of my parts are appropriately grateful, I've been thinking about how Obamacare is really about these two little girls I know. 

    One is Cassidy Freeman, whose picture you may have seen on Facebook. The 8-year-old is one of three gorgeous daughters of a hardworking couple who, when I met them over a decade ago, were in ministry in the Church of Christ.

    Scott was a preacher, and Tracy had worked for Republican politicans before becoming a full-time mom. It would be fair to describe their politics then as socially conservative, though to me they were always more interested in following Jesus than any political party. 

    At age four, Cassie was diagnosed with juvenile arthritis, and since then she's been denied medical coverage four times due to her pre-existing condition. Obamacare can't fix her arthritis, but it's already cured some of the family's anxiety. 

    The other girl on my mind is Kelsey Fuller, whose family lives in my South Jersey town. Now 15, Kelsey was born with a rare condition called Juvenile Neuronal Ceroid Lipofuscinosis, or Batten Disease.

    Batten is a neurological disorder that results in worsening seizures, mental impairment, loss of speech and motor function. It is always fatal. The form of the disease Kelsey has usually results in death before age 30.  156156_3665921577435_782401337_n

    Her family, which includes two other children, cares for Kelsey the best they can and tries to make her life as fulfilling as possible. She goes to school each day, at the Archbishop Damiano School at St. John of God in Westville Grove. With both parents working full time, Kelsey's aging grandparents also help out when they can.

    But her condition is getting worse -- she's now legally blind, struggles to speak, struggles to walk and wakes several times a night. The family has tried to get in-home skilled nursing services to help with Kelsey's care. Their insurance company refused, Kelsey's mother said, because her condition isn't advanced enough yet -- Kelsey can still do some things, like feed herself, with assistance.

    That will change. 

    "This disease is absolutely horrible. The brain basically shuts down and the rest of the body deteriorates because of this, leaving them bedridden until death," her mother, Kim, told me. "These kids are dying a slow, painful death and there's not a damn thing we can do. Most of these kids are so heavily medicated, they become like zombies.  Research continues, but because this is a rare 'orphan' disease, funding is extremely hard to get."

    With repeated denials from their insurance company, the family's next step is applying for Medicaid, but first they'll have to burn through nearly all of their retirement savings to meet the asset threshhold -- sacrificing the rest of the family's future security to care for Kelsey in the present. 

    For me, Kelsey's case is an illustration of how Obamacare likely doesn't go far enough. It's an example of how medical insurance companies turn sick children into a series of little boxes to be clicked off, categories to be satisfied, benchmarks to be met. 

    But Kelsey's story will only end one way. Everything else, all that comes before, is what her family will have to hold on to at the end. Fighting with an insurance company for help shouldn't eat up another minute of that precious time.

     

    August 15, 2012 in Current Affairs, Domestic agenda, Jersey, Kids | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    KITTY CAM: I want my MeowTV

     A story in the LA Times tells of a University of Georgia research project in which Kitty Cams -- which are exactly what they sound like, tiny video cameras strapped to the collars of house cats -- were used to document felines doing whatever the hell it is they do when they leave the house.  Oliverkeyboard

    I KNOW, RIGHT? 

    The research seems to confirm what any cat owner knows already, that is, that our lovable furballs aren't just ignorant jerks who like to muscle their way onto the laptop keyboard while you're writing on deadline or hork up hairballs in the guest room. They're also pretty much violent, philandering assholes when outdoors, too:

    Two thousand hours of footage later, the researchers say 44% of the cats went on attempted killing sprees and 85% engaged in dangerous behaviors such as crossing two lane streets and exploring tight spaces where they might get trapped. Perhaps most hurtfully, footage taken by four of the cats revealed that they keep a second family on the side.

    I knew it! 

    Oliver, my trifling tuxedo cat, is known to disappear for days at a time, then arrive like a guilty spouse just back from a Las Vegas weekend. And when he shows up at the doorstep he isn't dirty and hungry -- just tired, really really tired --  leading me to long suspect he's been making time with someone else.  

    From the UGA project's website:

    One of the most surprising things we witnessed was cats adopting a second set of owners. Four of our project kitties were recorded entering another household for food and/or affection! 

    On their site, you can watch a collection of Kitty Cam clips, with awesome names like "Finding Tasty Chex Mix" and "Climbing and Peeping." 

    Clearly I'm going to need a Kitty Cam, and a live web hookup -- I have the feeling The Oliver Channel would be huge. Though I suspect his video clips would come with NC-17 ratings and have titles like "I Killed A Bunny In Jersey Just To Watch Him Die" and "50 Shades of Oliver."

    --

    I caught this one in the social media streams of pal Gary Nielson. 

    August 08, 2012 in Domestic agenda, Housewife Confessional | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    Tanned, Rested and Ready

    Oh hello, poopies!
    No, Citizen Mom hasn't abandoned you, in fact I'm just back from a few days at the Shore and ready to settle into the summer. Too much news has happened to try to re-cap or snark on it all, but if you've been following my Twitter stream you know where my head's been at, as it were. If it seemed, for a while, that Twitter was killing my blog, it was half my own doing. The instant gratification of social media is addicting in its convenience. And it's been fascinating to watch the hemorrhagic growth of Twitter in the two years I've been using it. 
    I'm also fascinated by social media's impact on journalism, though I'm one of those people who thinks it's still way too early to do anything but observe, participate and make reasoned guesses. All these pronouncements make my head hurt.
    Right now, I'm lining up things to write about this week (got an idea, suggestion, invitation? citizenmom (at) gmail.com), wondering what to cook for dinner and warming up my blogging muscles with some good old-fashioned blogbuzzdancepop. Mangia!

    Passion Pit, "The Reeling." They're at the Sweat Lodge, er, First Unitarian Church on Aug. 15.

    June 29, 2009 in Domestic agenda | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

    ZOMG Mah Holiday Break Is Broke!

    Oh hello, 2009.
    I began the year laughing at Kathy Griffin and Anderson Cooper -- and if "I don't go to your job and knock the dicks out of your mouth" wasn't exactly the phrase with which to shuffle 2008 out the door, I don't know what was -- and am trying to ignore what happened in the Rose Bowl by indulging in some momentary Eagles fervor.
    What can I say, it's in the water.
    Anyway, it's back to school day (no, I'm not talking about the Obama girls) and I'm writing my next City Paper column, so will keep today's posts short and sweet.

    January 05, 2009 in Domestic agenda | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    If You Give A HockeyMom A Shotgun

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    Well, the boy has new sneakers, a fresh haircut, a new backpack and lunch box, and the fridge is stocked with fixins -- it must be the Night Before The First Day Of School! Will he sleep tonight? Will I?

    Later this evening, I'll be Twittering AND doing the whole IM thing with Valania during the Sarah Palin (codename: Mooseburger) speech at the Republican National Convention. I may try to go Full Palin, and actually gestate and give birth to a child during this evening's convention program. Only if I get the dinner dishes finished in time, though.

    I hope the RNC does better by her than they did by last night's speakers, with that horrible sky-and-flag background that made the speaker look small and lost. Irony?

    September 03, 2008 in Domestic agenda, Fly Females, January 20, 2009, Phawking, Teh Twitter, The Boy | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    'fierce and humble Thanks'

    Thanksgiving

    ". . . that we may then unite in most humbly offering our prayers and supplications to the great Lord and Ruler of Nations and beseech Him to pardon our national and other transgressions; -- to enable us all, whether in publick or private stations, to perform our several and relative duties properly and punctually; to render our National Government a blessing to all the people by constantly being a Government of wise, just, and constitutional laws, discreetly and faithfully executed and obeyed; to protect and guide all sovereigns and nations (especially such as have shewn kindness unto us); and to bless them with good governments, peace, and concord; to promote the knowledge and practice of true religion and virtue, and the increase of science among them and us; and, generally to grant unto all mankind such a degree of temporal profperity as he alone knows to be best."

    First Thanksgiving Proclamation, George Washington 1789.

    November 22, 2007 in Domestic agenda | Permalink | Comments (2)

    It Could Happen To You: Tipster Student Thwarts Shooting Plot At P-W?

    MyFoxPhilly.com is reporting that Plymouth Township police have taken into custody a home-schooler who was allegedly planning a Columbine-style attack on Plymouth-Whitemarsh High School.  Details are here, more to come by the noon news broadcasts, to be sure.

    Police searched his house and found a 9 millimeter assault rifle, four hand grenades, and black powder, among other weapons and books detailing how to make bombs.

    They also found videos of the Columbine shooting and notebooks that detailed possible violent acts. [MyFoxPhilly.com]

    3:30 p.m.: Just spoke to the PW parent again, she tells me the would-be attacker lives on Church Road, and the whole neighborhood is swarming with media. Philly.com says the kid didn't have ammo for the gun, which belonged to his mother, so an attack probably wasn't imminent.

    Better safe than sorry, I say.

    ***

    I just spoke to a parent of a P-W student, I told her about the threat at 9 a.m. (hat tip, Good Day) and she got a robo-call from the district around 9:45. Her daughter is still in class and to our knowledge, also unaware.

    The school district  posted an alert on its website, here, saying a current student reported the threat to police. This, combined with all the interviews I keep seeing from students in that Cleveland high school about how they had told school officials the shooter there was troubled, pretty much flies in the face of the interview in heavy rotation on CNN with Northwestern University Prof. Jack Levin. He prattles on about some supposed "culture of silence" inside schools -- sounds good as a soundbite, but it's just not true. Kids today are more than ready to "rat" on kids they perceive as threatening, and the threatening kids themselves usually try to get their message out somewhere (via blog, MySpace, etc.). It's getting "the system" to do anything that's the trouble.

    What planet is this professor from? He's on again now, essentially blaming the victims, still talking about the "culture of silence" and urging more anti-bullying programs. This kid in Cleveland, from what I understand, was an overweight white Goth kid in an almost all-black high school, an outcast in any number of ways. What wasn't obvious about his being troubled? What was so difficult to find, for adults who aren't just willing to look but to act?

    If Fox's detail -- that the would-be  shooter had attended P-W but left because he had been picked on -- is true, his identity will probably become public soon enough. It also bears noting that behind the high school is the grade 4-5 school, which shares the parking lot with P-W.

    October 11, 2007 in Domestic agenda | Permalink | Comments (0)

    Salacious Goings-On

    How 'bout them Phils, yo? 20071001_inq_phils01d

    JW, sorry I didn't text you back yesterday but I was driving on the North-South Freeway headed into the city to pick up Sally during the whole 8th and 9th innings. Only knew the game ended when people started honking and flashing headlights. Through the back window of the SUV in front of me, I saw a whole family in silhouette, high-fiving each other.

    So, I'm back from my week steering the Good Ship Phawker and am in Confetti Betty mode for the next day or so. Oh yeah, and tonight it's Van Halen at the Wachovia Center (for the Morning Call) and on Friday, it's a date with Bruce and MYK. Tired yet?

    Inquirer Sports coverage of Phils' win and the Eagles loss, including photo by Jerry Lodriguss. 

    October 01, 2007 in Domestic agenda | Permalink | Comments (0)

    Trashmen: Is There A Sportswriter In The House?

    During the ABC broadcast of the PSU-ND game Saturday night,  they ran the obligatory segment on JoePa, including the bit about him punishing the team for their off-field shenanigans by making them clean up Beaver Stadium after home games.

    This, naturally, led me to think about Todd Cherkis, brother of Jason and co-founder of United Workers Association down in Baltimore, which last week successfully avoided a planned hunger strike by having Camden Yards agree to pay their cleanup crews a living wage.

    The United Workers Association, the Baltimore organization, pressed O’s owner Peter Angelos and state and local officials to get the wage hike. They thought they’d secured the desired raise in 2004, when Angelos told UWA officials that he’d use his own money to make up the difference between what the company with the cleaning contract paid the workers—an average of less than $7 an hour—and the living wage.

    When Angelos didn’t follow through on that pledge, the workers and their advocates tried various tactics to force the issue. They tried pre-game picketing outside the stadium where they clean. They chased Angelos around town at the 2006 All-Star Game in Pittsburgh. They held a candlelight vigil on stadium grounds. No luck. Then, earlier this summer, the workers and their advocates declared they would go on a hunger strike beginning this week.   [Washington City Paper]

    Naturally this makes me wonder about the people who clean up Beaver Stadium when the Lions aren't on double-secret probation, and who picks up the remnants of all those Tony Luke's pork sammiches at Citizen's Bank Park? Knowing Philly, they may be unionized and paid a decent wage, but who knows?

     

    September 10, 2007 in Current Affairs, Domestic agenda, Other peoples' business, Sports | Permalink | Comments (3)

    A Note From Yr Mom -- With News!

    I'm taking this week off. Lois1972
    But wait! There's more!

    When I come back, the week of Aug. 20th, I'll be joining a new venture with the extremely cool and terribly hip folks over at The McClatchy Company, who you may remember owned the Inquirer for about 12 seconds.  They've put together a team to provide non-traditional (well, for a newspaper company, at least) coverage of the 2008 election -- a project called alt.campaign -- and I'll be part of it!

    alt.campaign will appear in the Election 2008 area of McClatchy's national website and yes it is a paid gig, though don't expect me to turn all Helen Thomas on you up in here. My mission is to write about that freaky deaky-est of threesomes -- politics, pop culture and celebrity -- for a feature called Confetti Betty (hat tip, JW). So we're not talking inverted pyramids.

    The other passengers in the alt.campaign station wagon  will be Joe Acton, a screenwriter whose Fade In will see actual campaign events retold in sitcom form;  Rives, a new-style poet who's doing off-the-bus campaign trail videos; and Mark Paul, who'll don hip waders and slog through the muddiest waters of the blogosphere in Moonbats & Wingnuts. Rant-O-Rama is a video soapbox, where reg'lar 'Mericans can do their thing.

    I'll have more links for you as we get closer to the official launch, but for now, those are the major details and I'm too excited to keep it to myself any longer. With Citizen Mom, Phawker and this new gig, along with some freelancing, I'll have a lot of fondue forks in the pot this fall -- hence the vacation!

    See you in a week!

    AmyZQ

    PS: Thanks, Howard.

    August 12, 2007 in Domestic agenda, January 20, 2009, Phawking | Permalink | Comments (2)

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