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    School supplies

    Things we need in every school that are not guns:

     * Up to date books

    * Books

    * Classroom supplies that teachers don’t have to buy out-of-pocket
    * Involved parents
    * Decent, recent technology
    * Healthy lunches
    * Clean bathrooms that work

    * Places to run, jump, and move

    * Motivated teachers working for fair pay

    * School nurses
    * Band instruments
    * Band
    * Music class
    * Art supplies
    * Art teacher
    * Art class
    * Team uniforms
    * Sports teams

    Feel free to add your own. 

    NRA: Armed guards, volunteer security gangs needed in every school. [NPR]

    Meanwhile, in good guys with guns: 

    DA: 4 dead, 3 troopers hurt in shooting incident

     

    December 21, 2012 in Current Affairs, Domesticity, Kids | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    Autumn is gone, the jackals are on the scene

    "THIS IS NOT A SALES CALL!"

    The ink was hardly dry on Autumn Pasquale's alleged killers' fingerprints when the robocall interrupted my dinner.

    "THERE HAS BEEN AN INCREASE IN CRIME IN YOUR AREA!"

    My house is about 8 miles from the street in neighboring Clayton where Autumn lived, and where she died too young and too horribly. Out here on the rural edges of Gloucester County, that's practically around the block.

    The recorded message -- which came from (425) 658-8850, a Washington-based telemarketing outfit called Pacific Telecom --  then went on to encourage me to sign up for a home security plan, with a monitoring system. 

    Remember, it wasn't a sales call.

    I listened to their pitch, general enough to be used to play on the fears of any community facing the unaccustomed trauma of a violent crime. Then I pressed the number meant, I thought, to connect me to one of their operators, so I could tell them what a bunch of parasitic vermin they are, but the call disconnected.

    It's probably better that way. The psychic energy is surely better spent praying for the two families whose lives have been rent by unimaginable, unknowable evil.

    October 23, 2012 in Current Affairs, Jersey, Kids | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    TODD AKIN: It's not the gaffe, it's the stupidity

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    With all due respect to Cindy McCain, "rape is rape" is not enough.

    Todd Akin didn't mis-speak, he mis-believes. He didn't mis-state, he mis-thinks, and he uses untruths as a basis for his politics. His claim that womens' bodies have a magical ability to prevent pregnancy after a "legitimate" rape wasnt a gaffe, it was an honest characterization of the willfully erroneous thinking behind personhood laws and attempts to ban abortion even in cases of rape or incest.

    Think about it: "If You Get Pregnant, It Wasn't Really Rape" is just the natural next single on a Republican Hit Parade that also includes "Put A Bayer Aspirin Between Your Knees," "Just Close Your Eyes," and "That Cluster of Cells Has the Same Rights As You." It's the sexual politics of either a 14-year-old boy or my octogenarian Dad.

    But what else can we really expect from a party whose members of Congress traveled to the Holy Land and went around drunk and naked like it was Senior Week in North Wildwood?

    But WAIT, one "rational Republican" said to me -- it's not really about the misogyny, its about the direction this country is going in! And with that I couldn't agree more, because Akin is a walking illustration of exactly where our country is going. And that's what scares the hell out of me.

    So I don't want to hear the "rational Republicans" in my life (and there are some) disavow Akin's words. I want them to disavow the lies, and the laws that are the end result of Akin's way of thinking. I want them to turn away from political stances that come from fanciful mischaracterization of female biology and a distrust of women to make reproductive decisions without government intervention.

    Tom Morello called Paul Ryan the embodiment of the machine his band's been raging against all these years. I say Ryan is the avatar of the Republican war on women. He and Mitt Romney are now the figureheads of a party which has at its core an utter ignorance of 7th grade science coupled with a fear of women and a deep desire to control us.

    The frightening thing about Akin isn't what he said. It's that if he said it, it means there are other people who must believe it. This is the same mentality that says if you give a girl a cancer vaccination it'll turn her into the town tramp.

    The national GOP is pulling the $5 million it was going to spend on the Akin race, though he'll likely raise more than that in "grassroots" money from people whose knowledge of basic biology is as good as his. Sounds like that $5 million would be better spent sending Congressional Republicans to an 11th grade sex-Ed class.

    IMAGE CREDIT: The Thoughts of AnyK

    August 20, 2012 in Current Affairs, Fly Females, WTF, yo | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

    Cassie and Kelsey: How two little girls tell the story of our sick healthcare system

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    Since the Affordable Care Act went into effect on Aug. 1, I've heard a lot about how it will affect my ladyparts, providing coverage for things like Pap tests, prenatal care and mammograms. And while all of my parts are appropriately grateful, I've been thinking about how Obamacare is really about these two little girls I know. 

    One is Cassidy Freeman, whose picture you may have seen on Facebook. The 8-year-old is one of three gorgeous daughters of a hardworking couple who, when I met them over a decade ago, were in ministry in the Church of Christ.

    Scott was a preacher, and Tracy had worked for Republican politicans before becoming a full-time mom. It would be fair to describe their politics then as socially conservative, though to me they were always more interested in following Jesus than any political party. 

    At age four, Cassie was diagnosed with juvenile arthritis, and since then she's been denied medical coverage four times due to her pre-existing condition. Obamacare can't fix her arthritis, but it's already cured some of the family's anxiety. 

    The other girl on my mind is Kelsey Fuller, whose family lives in my South Jersey town. Now 15, Kelsey was born with a rare condition called Juvenile Neuronal Ceroid Lipofuscinosis, or Batten Disease.

    Batten is a neurological disorder that results in worsening seizures, mental impairment, loss of speech and motor function. It is always fatal. The form of the disease Kelsey has usually results in death before age 30.  156156_3665921577435_782401337_n

    Her family, which includes two other children, cares for Kelsey the best they can and tries to make her life as fulfilling as possible. She goes to school each day, at the Archbishop Damiano School at St. John of God in Westville Grove. With both parents working full time, Kelsey's aging grandparents also help out when they can.

    But her condition is getting worse -- she's now legally blind, struggles to speak, struggles to walk and wakes several times a night. The family has tried to get in-home skilled nursing services to help with Kelsey's care. Their insurance company refused, Kelsey's mother said, because her condition isn't advanced enough yet -- Kelsey can still do some things, like feed herself, with assistance.

    That will change. 

    "This disease is absolutely horrible. The brain basically shuts down and the rest of the body deteriorates because of this, leaving them bedridden until death," her mother, Kim, told me. "These kids are dying a slow, painful death and there's not a damn thing we can do. Most of these kids are so heavily medicated, they become like zombies.  Research continues, but because this is a rare 'orphan' disease, funding is extremely hard to get."

    With repeated denials from their insurance company, the family's next step is applying for Medicaid, but first they'll have to burn through nearly all of their retirement savings to meet the asset threshhold -- sacrificing the rest of the family's future security to care for Kelsey in the present. 

    For me, Kelsey's case is an illustration of how Obamacare likely doesn't go far enough. It's an example of how medical insurance companies turn sick children into a series of little boxes to be clicked off, categories to be satisfied, benchmarks to be met. 

    But Kelsey's story will only end one way. Everything else, all that comes before, is what her family will have to hold on to at the end. Fighting with an insurance company for help shouldn't eat up another minute of that precious time.

     

    August 15, 2012 in Current Affairs, Domestic agenda, Jersey, Kids | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

    Shorter Sister Pat: Don't Even Step

    This, from Sister Pat Farrell, president of the Leadership Conference of Women Religious and the vice president of the Sisters of St. Francis in Dubuque, Iowa: 

    And if those issues become points of conflict, it's because Women Religious stand in very close proximity to people at the margins, to people with very painful, difficult situations in their lives. That is our gift to the church. Our gift to the church is to be with those who have been made poorer, with those on the margins. Questions there are much less black and white because human realities are much less black and white. That's where we spend our days."

    The Vatican is sending a team of bishops -- I'm imagining the long, slow-mo tracking shot of them walking down a hallway toward an interrogation room -- to put the sisters back in line on social issues like sexuality and reproductive rights. That's gonna go well. 

    FRESH AIR: Interview with Sister Pat

    (via Melody Kramer's FB page...)

    July 26, 2012 in Current Affairs, Fly Females | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

    Penn State's Public Acts of Contrition

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    (image via OnwardState )

    So, where do we go from here, Penn Staters?

    I’m talking to all of you, or at least, to the hundreds of thousands of alumni and friends living in the Philadelphia area. Where do we take our school next?

    When I last wrote about this, one of the questions fellow alumni had was about what we can do going forward. The alumni I talk to who are remaining loyal to the school aren't doing so to preserve Joe Paterno's legacy. Collectively, there is a genuine interest in how we can address the penalties, acknowledge the shortcomings and craft a future for Penn State.

    First -- please don’t sweat the $73 million in combined penalties from the NCAA and Big Ten, or Gov. Corbett's foot-stomping about protecting taxpayers. Because if there’s one thing PSU knows how to do, it’s raise money. And Penn Staters know how to give: In recent years, big-name alums have donated hundreds of millions of dollars -- much for sports, yes, but also for study of the law, food sciences, cancer research, and honors education.

    So it’s not about the money. It’s about punishment and penance for the entire city-state of Happy Valley.

    Like the removal of the statue and the plaques behind it, the NCAA's cancellation of several seasons worth of football wins was a literal prying away of the physical traces of the Paterno years. It's about public shaming on the NCAA's part, and institutional preservation on PSU's.

    In this way, it's very much not about the game of football, but the sacrament of sport.

    Obviously it’s no coincidence that I keep using Catholic imagery. So much of Penn State is now exposed as having indulged the same kind of systematic moral failings as the Church in its own child sex abuse scandal. JoePa was a father figure, a grandfather figure, a head of state whose many undeniable good works are undermined and overshadowed now by critical errors in leadership and lack of moral clarity when it mattered most. 

    [It also bears noting that the secular, public university has already been held more publicly accountable, showed more genuine humility, and been more welcoming of correction, than the Church will likely ever be.]

    Someone asked what I thought of the timing, of workers removing the statue in the quiet of a State College Sunday morning, covered from public view with blue tarps like a crime scene. It seemed about right, I said. Let’s face it, the bronze monument was never going to be felled in some Saddam Hussein-style public uprising. Nor are students and alumni in any mood to riot to keep it there.

    But with some obsessing on the question -- Will the statue stay? -- to the point of flying banner planes over University Park, Penn State’s leaders had two choices. Either take it down and end the discussion for now, or make a public statement of support saying the statue was staying put. And that couldn’t happen, what with the alcove off Curtin Road already turning into a shrine to a martyred saint.

    To me, the timing that really matters is the year 1998, which now seems fixed as the point at which any further abuse by Jerry Sandusky could have --  and should have -- been stopped.

    What the NCAA decided, and the university signed off on by signing the consent decree, is the notion that Paterno’s coaching career effectively ended in 1998, too. Canceling out every Penn State win from 1998 on (when McQueary was quarterback and Ray Gricar was Centre County’s District Attorney) is a direct arrow in the side of the Paterno legacy, a most personal strike.

    And you’d better believe the Paterno loyalists are taking it personally.

    On one Penn State Alumni Facebook page I frequent, the level of denial about the Freeh Report is approaching moon-landing-hoax levels of ridiculousness. They’re mad as hell -- at the trustees, at Louis Freeh, at the media (naturally), at Mark Emmert, and at Tom Corbett -- especially Tom Corbett, but I suspect that's because many voted for him. (I assure you, they won’t again.)

    Now there's a petition calling on President Erickson to step down, something about “failure of leadership and damage to the Penn State brand.” The brand! Way to prove Emmert’s point, folks. And that’s only about 11,000 people out of all the Penn Staters on Facebook.

    Time and again I’ve seen people try to make rational points about the failure of leadership at Penn State and be shouted down by the Paterno absolutists, for whom preserving the win total and maintaining “the brand” are paramount.

    It’s time to tune out that noise, to let actions speak louder than the rantings.

    July 23, 2012 in Current Affairs, Dear Old State | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

    So, what *does* Naked Philly have to hide?

    Y'know, besides the names of who owns, writes and edits their site?

    Actually, it's no mystery: Naked Philly (ironic slogan: We've Got Nothing To Hide!) is owned and operated by Ori Feibush of OCF Realty (Ironic bio note: "Transparency is a word you hear a lot these days. And at OCF, it really means something.")

    From my understanding of the conversation Feibush and I had today, the site serves two purposes. First, the Naked Philly blog is supposed to build buzz for the neighborhoods in which OCF Realty does business, which sounds a bit like the Philebrity/Blatstein model of early-days covert advertorial blogging. Second, Feibush told me, the Naked Philly site was launched in advance of some crazyass mapping tool he's almost ready to launch and which actually sounds pretty cool. 

    The idea, he told me, was for the mapping tool to be ready to go around the same time as the Naked Philly site. It hasn't happened that way.

    What has happened instead?  Since the demise of the much-beloved but short-lived Brownstoner Philly site in December, there's been a bit of a rush to fill the void in covering the city's land use/building/development/real estate scene -- an area of activity so ripe with news it practically falls from the trees. The site I work for, Plan Philly, is part of that world, though the mission there is a legitimately journalistic one. 

    The way Feibush explained it, the Naked Philly site has sort of taken on a life of its own in the meantime, as people are genuinely interested in what's happening in the city's built environment. "The idea is to showcase properties in areas that otherwise wouldn't get noticed," he said. Fair enough.

    Problem is, the folks "writing" the site (more on that in a second) have spent so much time reprinting press releases, running unsourced information and borrowing from others, they're building much more suspicion than credibility. Some of their posts are really good, but lacking essential information like where the information comes from or why anyone should believe it.

    Earlier this week I called them out on lifting ideas and specific words from two of my stories. To his credit, Feibush responded promptly, appropriately and professionally to my concerns, telling me today it was "blatantly apparent" that his writer had used my work. It was a difficult conversation and I give him credit for it.

    As for the writer, I agreed not to out her (though I do know who she is) because her name hadn't been on the original posts. That's called professional courtesy -- much like the practice of linking and crediting others' work when you reference it in your blog posts. See what I did there?

    Anyway, I'm over it and willing to take Feibush at his word when he says the site never intended to come off as some sketchy cloak-and-dagger thing. And because I have seen some genuinely useful posts on Naked Philly, I'll give him the benefit of the doubt and will keep reading. Perhaps you will, too.

    May 04, 2011 in Current Affairs, J-school, Philly, Weblogs, WTF, yo | Permalink | Comments (4) | TrackBack (0)

    Tough days, layoffs at Girard College

    While most of the city's attention has been focused on the situation inside the troubled Philadelphia School District, things inside Girard College seem to be in a state of rapid decline.

    There are a number of reasons I can't approach this story as a neutral reporter but I am happy to provide a place here for folks on campus to tell their stories in the hope that the city's reporters will take notice.

    Last semester, I heard disturbing reports about things like the kitchen running out of food and many students who hadn't eaten much at dinner the night before (apparently pork was served and many student don't dig on swine) receiving only fruit at breakfast -- hardly enough to fire up the brain for a day of learning. 

    I've heard repeated reports of former staffers and students being discouraged, or outright prohibited, from visiting the campus. It's not for me to blame any of this on Autumn Adkins, the thirtysomething who became Girard's president in 2009, but things do not seem to be moving in the right direction.

    Most recently, on April 14, my sources say, about 10 teachers and staff members were given official layoff notices. All of them showed up to work the next day, where students were understandably upset. That happens at any school where beloved teachers depart, but at Girard it's important to remember that the school itself is designed to be a -- and sometimes, the only -- stable and consistent thing in the child's life.

    Aside from the money story, there's a human story here. Regardless of the school's history or what anybody thinks about Stephen Girard, there are kids on campus hurting and they deserve better.

    Do you work at Girard College, or are you a student? Please feel free to leave your thoughts/tips/information here or email me at citizenmom@gmail.com . Hail Girard.

     

     

    April 17, 2011 in Current Affairs, Kids, Philly | Permalink | Comments (34) | TrackBack (0)

    TIRED TUNE: The Westboro Two-Step

    From Phillyburbs.com:

    "That is sort of the group's (Westboro Baptist Church) M.O., at least with us. They issue a press release that they are coming and then they don't show. They just want the publicity," the chief said.

    In 2007, the group was a no-show at a military funeral in the township, said Dickinson. 

    You know how this dance goes: Write story about Westboro threatening to picket a funeral, then follow with a story when they don't show. Either way, the lunatics win. 

     

    March 15, 2011 in Current Affairs, J-school | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

    We Could Be Heroes, Just For One Day

    HOLD ON NOW: Jenny the Whiteboard Chick might be a publicity stunt. Wouldn't be surprising.

    On the one hand, you have the JetBlue flight attendant who made the kind of spectacular exit everyone  fantasizes about when he told off the cabin, popped the emergency slide and peaced a 28-year career. Frankly, my favorite part of this isn't that he grabbed a few beer from the beverage cart on his way out the door, but that when the cops showed up to arrest him he was in flagrante delicto:

    Slater was later arrested at his home in Belle Harbor by Port Authority officials.  Police sources said that when authorities found Slater he seemed to be in the midst having sexual relations. (via NBC New York)

    You gotta figure he knew he'd be going away for a little while, at least, and wanted to get his ya-yas out one last time. Dammit, that shows just the kind of clear-thinking you want during an in-flight emergency! Amazing-girl-quits-6

    On the other hand, you have Jenny the Whiteboard Girl, who exposed a creepy boss's Farmville addiction in a series of photos she emailed to the whole office and whoops! it got on the Internets.

    Already, some who know the fed up flight attendant are describing him as just the kind of short-tempered jerk who would eventually snap. Give the guy points for doing the least violent thing, I guess?

    As for Jenny, that's the best use of company office supplies since people start stealing rolls of toilet paper to take home. I hope the Expo Marker people are on the phone offering her a job right now. The kid's got moxie.

    August 10, 2010 in Current Affairs, Fly Females, Men to Avoid | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

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